Breaking invisible barriers


When i was living in The Netherlands, I stubbled upon a house of 800K, it was a dream, square male energy and next doro to Arboretum Trompbenburg.. 

I told my mom about it, I was young enthused and just working.. my mom as she usually did, fluffed it off and said sth like thats a lot of money.. where will you get it?

This used to faze me.. like all the other times she had discouraging tone in her voice when my creative side came up with an idea. 

Today as I was walking by some properties around 750K, that moment flashed through my mind.. but now my mind did not believe in the ‘no, you can’t’.

A recent encounter with one of the directors of the big 5, taught me a new attitude: its just money.. if you don’t have fun with it, what good is it. 

Today, i thought, yes.. it's possible.. because I also have a project that will bring in bigger amounts then before.. 

12x5000 devide by 3, times 2, and then 30% of that.. being 12000 per engaged and hired client. 


Today i cracked the invisible barrier and broke the old systemic belief: that money needs to be worked hard for.. the burden of previous chinese generations living and working in China, South America in a 3rd world country. 

Today i saw clearly the option for moving away from hard work and just being capable.. the thing i had been waiting for all my medical career.. 

anyone can heal.. 

anyone can become rich

there are no limits.. 

its only our old wiring that keeps us limited..

What invisible barrier are you still living inside of?



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